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Our modern world
has almost completely lost the understanding of
celibacy for the sake of the kingdom-of a life
entirely consecrated to God. Many people believe
celibacy to be impossible. They think celibacy
in the priesthood of the Roman Catholic Church
is a remnant of the Dark Ages which will eventually
be done away with. Likewise, they look on religious
life as repressive and contrary to nature, a mode
of life which is passing away.
Along with its failure to understand
religious chastity, our society has also forgotten
about extravagant generosity, about radical self-sacrifice
for the good of the Beloved, and about spending
lavishly to proclaim an ultimate truth. This radical,
unthinkable generosity goes hand in hand with
true religious chastity. Celibacy for the kingdom
of God is a gift from Him and a magnificent expression
of the lover for the Beloved. It is not passing
away; it is not an idea that has seen its day.
It is an invaluable gift to the Church and to
the world.
On July 26, 1992, two brave
women, now Sister Hannah Joy and Sister Grace,
responded to the call of Christ the Bridegroom
to consecrate themselves entirely to Him and became
the first novices in the Sisterhood of the Life
in Jesus Community. They joined a long line of
men and women who have penetrated the veil that
separates this world from the next.
When these women first began
to discern their vocations to a consecrated celibate
life, there was so much we did not understand.
Over the years the Lord has taught us, revealing
more and more about this holy and beautiful calling.
What would the Lord have us
understand about religious chastity? So many of
us have our preconceived ideas of religious sisters
and brothers, of monks and nuns. Depending on
our background, experiences, and what we have
been taught, we may have fond memories of brothers
and sisters, or we may cringe to remember our
days in parochial school. We may be tainted by
anti-Catholic sentiment, or we may have no experience
at all. Regardless of our memories, feelings,
or opinions, it is important to come to understand
the spiritual and supernatural reality of the
lives of those men and women who have given their
whole being, body, soul, and spirit, to God and
for the good of His Church. I believe the Lord
would have us recognize that these men and women
are a gift to the Church; I believe He would have
us listen to the word He speaks through them.
Consecrated men and women proclaim
to the Church and to the world that Christ is
worth giving up all for and that He is the ultimate
goal of all believers. In sacrificing all for
God, they remind us that He alone can satisfy
the human heart; He is the fulfillment of all
our desires. Men and women who are called to serve
God in this particular and holy way, through their
spiritual and prophetic surrender, point those
who have eyes of the Spirit to heaven and to the
nuptial union which exists between Christ and
His Church, between God and the soul. They remind
us that each one of us is created for union with
God.
In Ephesians 5:32, Saint Paul
tells us that the marriage between a man and a
woman reveals to the world the mystery of the
union between Christ and His bride, the Church.
He gave us marriage to be a picture of His love
for us, of His mysterious union with the Church.
He gave us the consecrated celibate life to be
a clearer icon of that same mysterious union,
to proclaim that eternity with God is a reality.
In heaven, we shall enter into a nuptial embrace
with God that will bless us beyond all measure
and will fill our deepest longings.
The response to a call to the
consecrated celibate life is motivated by love.
It is a response to Love Incarnate: Jesus Christ.
The primary goal of consecrated men and women
is to belong completely to Jesus and to worship
Him with all that they are. Then, out of His
love for them and their love for Him flows service
to others.
The primary service of our sisters
at Life in Jesus is prayer, interceding for the
Church and the world in the Divine Office. Because
of the vocation of these consecrated souls, I
believe they also have the opportunity to develop
an efficiency in prayer that many of us simply
dream of. Often we receive letters, phone calls,
or personal requests for our sisters to pray.
People who have even a simple knowledge of God's
call on the lives of our sisters are confident
that they are known and loved by God and that
He hears and responds to their prayers. In addition
to their work of prayer, our sisters also work
in the community office, serve in music ministry,
work in the kitchen, serve at retreats, work with
young women, and teach in our Sunday School, among
other things.
For our sisters, part of their
call is to be a clear visible symbol of the bride
of Christ. In the early years of formation, as
our first novices approached profession, Mother
Jean and I and our two novices sought wisdom from
the Lord with respect to the kind of clothing
they should wear. (During their noviate, they
wore a simple navy jumper with a white blouse.)
We were debating between a simple modern habit
and a traditional habit. I remember the novices
showing me a photograph of two sisters standing
next to each other; one wore a modern habit and
the other a more traditional habit. All of a sudden
I had an epiphany: the Lord opened my eyes to
see the importance of our sisters wearing a traditional
habit, which unquestionably points out the call
to be an icon of the unity between Christ and
His Church. Because of their visibility in their
traditional habits, they have had increased opportunities
to minister the love of Jesus in grocery stores,
on airplanes, and everywhere they go. Many people
see the habit and know that this woman belongs
to God. Others realize that they can approach
a habited sister and pour out their heart or ask
for prayer.
Twelve years after the foundation
of our sisterhood, we have four life-professed
sisters and three novice sisters, one of whom
will make her profession in the fall, taking vows
of poverty, chastity, and obedience. They have
come from different backgrounds with different
experiences and talents. We have sisters with
artistic talents, musical ablities, computer skills,
nursing training, sewing skills, and more. All
share a common love for Christ and His Church.
We await the day we will have a brotherhood for
men seeking to fulfill a religious vocation.
Some of the basic prerequisites
for the sisterhood, which apply to the brotherhood
as well, require a person . . .
- To have a deep love for Christ, sense the
Lord's call, and desire to give himself or herself
to the Lord in prayer and acts of sacrificial
service and mercy.
- To be between the ages of 18 and 49 years
of age. The older a person is when he or she
begins, the more difficult the journey often
is.
- To be single. They may or may not have desires
for marriage and a family but feel God's call
to a celibate life.
- To be in sound health of spirit, mind, and
body. The call to the sisterhood or brotherhood
can be rigorous in all ways, and sound health
is important.
- To be debt-free and willing to abide by St.
Paul's admonition to owe no one anything but
to love (Romans 13:8).
- To be willing to pursue a life lived under
the vows.
Our community is very grateful to
God for our professed sisters and novice sisters.
They are loved by all, especially the children.
We continue to pray for the day when God will
send us a number of young men who have the heart
and courage to surrender all to be a gift to Christ
and His Church in this place. Please pray that
the number of sisters joining us will grow and
that men of faith, character, and courage will
join us as well.
Today men and women are willing
to fight and die to secure peace and democracy.
I pray God will raise up men and women who are
willing to give their lives radically to Jesus
Christ. God bless you for your love, prayers,
and support.
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by the Life In Jesus Community 2004.
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